Is it love or is it our idea of how love should be that drives us to pain.
Is it love that hurts or is it our interpretation of love that
hurts....what we think is love may not be love at all. Our controlling,
enabling and rescuing can seem like love but really, it's the opposite and
maybe it's that drives us to pain, and often we don't question why when we
feel we are loving the other person that all we get back is pain...in
actual fact we are hurting ourselves. Hmmmm the pain does feel fatalistic
but there is a better way.